A few days ago, I got a sudden feeling that I was on too many social networks and my information was spread too far out of my control on the internet. I was also reading a lot about Facebook’s privacy problems and their erosion of user controls in order to better monetize their information 1, 2, 3. During the process of quitting Facebook, the site showed me pictures of my friends, and told me that they would miss me. It said “your 153 friends won’t be able to communicate with you anymore!” Scary.
I was also regularly using Foursquare, which is a social networking application that lets you “check in” at various physical locations and see who else is there. If you check in to a place more than anyone else, you become “Mayor,” and if you check in at the right sequence or number of places, you can win “badges.” This was fun for a while, I was Mayor of several places, and I had lots of badges, but I didn’t feel I was getting anything out of it, and Foursquare was getting a lot of valuable information. I forgot to “check in” at work for a few days, and when I realized this, it was time to finish with Foursquare.
I also had several near-dormant accounts with Instant Message services. I had an MSN account, a Yahoo account, an AIM account and a Google Talk account. I’m on LinkedIn, and Twitter, Last.Fm, YouTube and Vimeo, and who knows what other services I don’t remember at this point. Too many.
I have been using Passpack to organize my online passwords, which I’ve been happy with. They have a very strong security policy, a sane privacy policy, and I pay for service, which feels a bit more safe as well. As I’ve been changing passwords and entering them into Passpack, it has given me a view of just how many accounts I have! I have over 40 entered so far, and there are a lot more to go.
So, I’ve been cleaning this up a bit. I’ve decided that I want to focus on my blog/website, my Twitter, and my Google Talk. I’m going to share videos with YouTube, at least until Vimeo improves their iPhone support. Almost everything else, I’m going to get rid of. If you happened to talk to me on one of the services I’ve deleted, you can always find me here. Check the “Contact Info” box on my blog, or just call me on the phone.
Removed so far:
- Facebook
- Foursquare
- Microsoft Live Messenger
- Yahoo Messenger
- AOL Instant Messenger
- Last.fm
- LinkedIn
- MySpace
… and more to come.
So far, this feels pretty good! I’ve been focusing on services that feel less evil, don’t try to collect as much personally identifying information, and who are at least more subtle about their attempts to monetize me.